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March 2021 Newsletter

March 2021 Newsletter

For upcoming events, see our Calendar. For the monthly Queries, see March: Stewardship and Vocation . (The red text on this page and within this web site contains embedded hypertext links. Double click on any red link to open the web page associated with that link.)


Reno Friends Meeting House and the First Day School are closed for now due to the pandemic, but we are holding Silent Worship through the web app Zoom at 10:00 am (details below). We are also holding online meetings, spiritual discussions, yoga classes and fellowship on Zoom. For details on using Zoom, see our Zoom guidelines

March Reno Friends Meeting Schedule

Every Sunday for the foreseeable future:  Silent Worship on Zoom, from 10:00 to 11:00 am, with Zoom fellowship following. (Click the “Silent Worship” link, above, for the zoom link.)

Tues. Mar. 2 – Zoom Ministry & Oversight Committee Meeting, 10 am

Thurs. Mar. 4 – PM Embodying the Light, 7-8 pm, on Zoom (details)

Wed. Mar. 10 – AM Embodying the Light, 10-11 am, on Zoom (details)

Thurs. Mar. 11 – Zoom Clerks’ Committee Meeting 10 am

Sun. Mar. 14 – Zoom Meeting for Business, 11:30 am. (First Sunday this month)

Wed. Mar. 24 – AM Embodying the Light, 10-11 am, on Zoom (details)

Thurs. Mar. 25 — Spiritual Discussion: “What is the Meaning of Life? with Catie Polley & Rhonda Ashurst, 7-8:30 pm (details below)

Reno Friends Meeting Events & Notices

Silent Worship now on Zoom every Sunday at 10 am, with Fellowship afterwards

We are meeting for Silent Worship only on Zoom for the rest of the winter and early spring. We will hold our usual social hour after Worship on Zoom, as well, so after we rise from Worship, everyone can go get a cup of coffee and return to the Zoom session. Here is the recurring Zoom link for online Silent Worship on Sundays mornings. (The Zoom session is active between 9:45-12:00, with Silence starting at 10.)

For Silent Worship on Zoom, we have developed a set of Zoom Worship guidelines. For those who would like to learn more about Zoom in advance, go to If you would rather sit in Silent Worship quietly at home rather than online, we invite you to send after-thoughts, joys and concerns, and requests to hold people in the Light to Rhonda at rhondalou14(at) Our worship clerk will read them at the next Zoom Silent Worship.

Embodying the Light: First Thursday evening class on Zoom, 7-8 pm, Mar. 4; Second and Fourth Wednesday morning classes on Zoom, 10-11 am, Mar. 10 and Mar. 24.

Rhonda Ashurst leads the “Embodying the Light” class of gentle yoga and Tai Chi/Qigong as a service to Reno Friends and the community. All the Embodying the Light classes are currently being held on Zoom because of the pandemic. For the foreseeable future, Rhonda will teach an evening class from 7-8 pm on first Thursdays (Mar. 4), and morning classes from 10-11 am on second and fourth Wednesdays (Mar. 10 and Mar. 24). We will do our Tai Chi/Qigong practice standing, but please have a chair or mat for our brief meditation. See our website for more details. Please watch the Weekly Schedule Update for the Zoom link.

Zoom Ministry and Oversight Committee Meeting, Tues. Mar. 2, at 10 am

RFM’s M&O Committee will meet on Zoom Tues. Mar. 2 at 10 am. This meeting is open only to M&O Committee members and helpers. A link for that Zoom session, along with an agenda, will go out to those involved the day before. If anyone in the Meeting has a concern they would like to bring forward to Ministry & Oversight, please contact Wendy Swallow.

Zoom Clerks Committee Meeting, Thurs. Mar. 11, at 10 am

RFM’s Clerks’ Committee will meet Thurs. Mar. 11 at 10 am on Zoom to discuss the March Meeting for Business agenda. A link for that Zoom session, along with an agenda, will go out to those involved the day before. If anyone in the Meeting has an item for the Meeting for Business agenda, please forward it to one of the Meeting Clerks, either John Hervey or Mark Woolbright.

Zoom Meeting for Business, Sun. Mar. 14, at 11:30 am 

Business Meetings will be held on Zoom for the foreseeable future 11:30 am. A Zoom link will be sent out to all in advance of each Meeting for Business, along with the agenda. Everyone is welcome at Meeting for Business.

Zoom Spiritual Discussion, 7-8:30 pm, Thurs. Mar. 25, “What is the Meaning of Life?” with Catie Polley and Rhonda Ashurst

Please join Catie Polley and Rhonda Ashurst for a spiritual discussion Thurs. Mar. 25 on the topic: What is the Meaning of Life? What brings meaning to your life? How has that been influenced by your Quaker faith? The link for this discussion, and additional background material and queries, will be sent out later in the month. We welcome everyone.

RFM Easter Garden Party!  Join us Sun. Apr. 4 at 2 pm, in the Meeting House Garden

Reno Friends will gather in the garden of the Meeting House on Easter Sunday, Apr. 4, at 2 pm to share finger foods and show off our Easter bonnets.  We will have tables and a few chairs set up outside.  If the weather threatens, we will reschedule and let everyone know by email.

  • Please bring a finger food to share;
  • We will socially distance and wear masks when not eating;
  • Bring a mask, and wear an Easter bonnet if you like;
  • M&O will supply plates, napkins and a cooler of canned seltzer;
  • Bring your own beverage, if you prefer (but no alcohol, please);

Donating to Reno Friends in 2021

While our Meeting House is closed until we can safely hold worship inside, Reno Friends are still busily providing food for the homeless, supporting national Quaker efforts around justice and equality, gathering online for worship and discussions and meetings, and working to keep our Meeting House and grounds maintained and functioning. If you would like to support the Meeting, donations should be sent to our Meeting Treasurer Charlie Shepard, at his home at 4395 Mountaingate Dr., Reno, NV  89519. Or you can send money to the Meeting via your bank using the Zelle payment application, which most banks offer for free. To make a Zelle transfer, you’ll need Reno Friends’ bank account number, which you can get by emailing Charlie at cshepard54(at) It eliminates the need to write a check and, for our Treasurers, to deposit your check at the bank. Thank you from Reno Friends!

RISE Update

Changes have been coming to RISE, the local charity that serves Reno’s homeless and which is supported by Reno Friends. RISE, which stands for the Reno Initiative for Shelter and Equality, is no longer managing the RISE & Dine meal service that Reno Friends have helped with in the past. The Catholic Charities (under the direction of the Community Homeless Advisory Board made up of local officials) has taken over that service. Instead, RISE is operating the new family shelter, Our Place.

Some Reno Friends have been working with a group of volunteers who prepare foods to distribute to homeless camps. If anyone is interested in helping with this effort, please email Wendy Swallow, at wswallow54(at) For a report on RISE from Steve Wolgast, the RFM RISE liaison, please see the Reno Friends RISE Report.

Quaker Earthcare Witness:  Books on Climate and Care of the Earth

Each of us approaches Earthcare from the calling deep within us. Some are called to advocacy; some are called to tilt at the political windmills; some of us are called to teach/share with others; some of us are called to regenerative agriculture and/or native plants. Each has its place in Earthcare. It’s important to find our own starting place – and that will guide our reading. Reading broadly can also help us find that starting place.” – Hope Ascher, Quaker Meeting of Melbourne. For some suggestions of recommended books, click here:

Donate New Stamps to the Homeless

Want to help those in need? Donate new FOREVER stamps to be distributed to the homeless through the Reno Family Resource Center. Put stamp donations in the little drawer under the bulletin board in the Meeting House.

Carson City Worship Group

The Carson City worship group is currently meeting privately because of the pandemic. If you are interested in attending, please contact clerk(at) and we will connect you to the Carson clerk. In better times, the Carson Worship Group meets every Sunday of the month for unprogrammed worship from 11:30 am to 12:30 pm in the living room of the Rectory of St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in Carson City. St. Peter’s, located at 314 North Division Street, occupies a small city block in the heart of Carson City’s Historic District. The Rectory, an historic two-story brick house, sits just south of the church building. When the Carson Worship Group is able to meet again in the St. Peter’s Rectory, we will announce that here.

Quaker Mission Stamp Project

Stamping for Dollars, previously know as The Quaker Stamp Project, helps the poor through Right Sharing of World Resources, a Quaker organization that provides micro-grants to groups of very poor women for starting up a business. All live in impoverished areas in Africa and India. To support this worthwhile program, save canceled foreign and domestic stamps, and send them to: Stamps for Right Sharing, c/o Indianapolis First Friends, 3030 Kessler Blvd East Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46220. For more information: You can help make a difference in the world – one stamp at a time!

Outside Non-Profits That (Previously) Met at the Quaker Meeting House

NOTE:  These groups are currently meeting online only.

Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families meets every Tuesday and Thursday from 5:30 pm to 6:30 pm, and every Saturday from 5 pm to 6 pm. ACA is a world service 12-step program for those struggling with the legacy of growing up in an alcoholic or dysfunctional home. These groups are open to all.

Citizens Climate Lobby of Northern Nevada works with local and national legislators to pass a carbon tax and dividend to help stop global warming. CCL meets the 4th Tuesday of the month, 6:30 to 8 pm (except for Dec.). For more info, email Betsy Fadali at bfadali(at) Feel free to bring friends and neighbors, if they are interested. For more on CCL, go to

Other Non-Profits Affiliated with Reno Friends

Sierra Interfaith Action for Peace (SIAP) has been “holding a space” for peace for over 16 years. Instead of gathering in front of the Federal Building, as they have done in the past, the group now gathers for a peace vigil on Zoom every Monday from 5:30-6:00 pm. Members take turns leading the group with relevant articles and discussions. If anyone wants to join the group, please send an email to either Pat Coia at or Rita Sloan at

Hold Them in the Light

Please hold the following in the Light: All who those who have lost loved ones or who have suffered illness during the pandemic; those who have lost jobs or business; everyone hurt and challenged by racism, war and terrorism; those who struggle with loneliness, sadness or privation; all those grieving over the epidemic of gun violence and police violence in our country, and for and all the people and leaders of our nation and all countries experiencing war or oppression, so that we may find peaceful resolutions to all our economic and political troubles. In particular, please hold in the Light:  Sharonlee Souza, Peg’s cousin Cathy; Suze’s friend Linda and her friends Anthony and Amber; Mark and Edie’s niece Hannah and friends Karen, Lee, and Bart; Rick’s wife Beth and all of San Jose Meeting; Rhonda’s friend Deb; Melanie’s sister Stephanie; Katie’s friend Rick; Erin’s friend Derek.

To request prayers, or to add or subtract someone from the “Hold in the Light” list, please contact Rhonda Ashurst at rhondalou14(at)

Quaker Activities & Announcements

Ben Lomond Quaker Center Workshops

Ben Lomond is still operating, but most programs are currently held online. Check out their website for Worship Sharing, Silent Worship, specific programs and more. Go to

Promptings of the Spirit, a Writers’ Retreat: Mar. 24-28, Online with Dwight Wilson, Nancy Thomas & Bob Fisher

Opportunities to give and receive support and inspiration, to learn and share collective wisdom and genre specific techniques in fiction, non-fiction, poetry, lyrics and creative non-fiction/ memoir. We will be seeking and responding to nudges of the spirit from lived experience, reading, walking, writing prompts, sharing stories, poetry, centering worship and worship sharing.

Embodied Spirituality, A Quaker Center Interest Group Invitation, 90-minute sessions every Monday evening for 6 weeks, starting Apr. 5, Online with Barbara Birch

You are invited to join Barbara Birch, Strawberry Creek Monthly Meeting*, and Susan Wilson, Quaker Center Co-Director in a 6-week exploration of embodiment and how it is a way to resist body image dissatisfaction and societal standards of beauty. Embodied spirituality helps us understand health, intuitive eating and drinking, and mindful exercise. Source material will be our personal sharing through exploration of the Bible and Quaker writings, as well as other topical resources. This program is FREE, but we request a serious commitment to participate all 6 weeks in order to establish a deep and confidential space for spiritual connection.

Choosing Peace: Nurturing Ourselves as Peacebuilders in a Divided World, Apr. 16-18, Online with Bridget Moix

How do we sustain our witness as peacebuilders amid such deep division, violence, and fear today? How do we turn our own anger and dismay into positive change in the world? How do we practice hope?
This workshop will help us reconnect and renew ourselves as peacebuilders. Together we we will
learn from the examples of people building peace around the world, take time to reflect on our own
leadings, soak in nature, and share practical ways we can help heal our country and communities. We
will worship and work, walk and play, write and reflect. This program will be active and interactive.

Ben Lomond Financial Appeal

Between COVID and the recent fires, Ben Lomond Quaker Center
has lost about $15,000 per month of budgeted income. We started out with some healthy reserves, we’ve cut back on expenditures and Friends have been exceedingly generous in offering financial support. But, as the pandemic continues, and as we recover from the CZU fire, we are nearly certain to approach the limits of our ability to stay afloat and to chart the course. Please help, as you are able: DONATE

British Yearly Meeting Shares a Daily Feed of Advices and Queries: Go to

Quaker worship and fellowship online through Western Friend Magazine:

Write for What Canst Thou Say?

Tell us your stories! What Canst Thou Say? (WCTS) is an independent publication co-operatively produced by Friends with an interest in mystical experience and contemplative practice. WCTS is a worship-sharing group in print. We hope to help Friends be tender and open to the Spirit. Articles that best communicate to our readers are those that focus on specific events and are written in the first person. We welcome submissions of articles less than 1500 words and artwork suitable for black and white reproduction. It is published in February, May, August, and November. The editorial and production team is Muriel Dimock, Lissa Field, Mariellen Gilpin, Judy Lumb, Grayce Mesner, Mike Resman, Earl Smith, Eleanor Warnock, and Rhonda Ashurst.

Reno Friends are welcome to email submissions to Rhonda Ashurst at rhondalou14(at) Please send your text submissions in Word or generic text format, and artwork in high resolution jpeg files. Photocopied art and typed submissions are also accepted. All authors and artists retain copyright to their articles and artwork published in WCTSWCTS retains the right to publish initially and to reprint in WCTS anthologies.

Reno Friends Newsletter: How To Contribute

Submissions: Please submit your items for the newsletter by the Second Sunday of the month for inclusion in the following month’s newsletter. Send Friends Calendar events and information to Reno Friends newsletter editor Wendy Swallow, wswallow54 (at), or leave a message on the Meeting phone, (775) 329-9400.

Getting the newsletter in the mail: If you need to receive your newsletter by postal mail, please notify RFM newsletter editor Wendy Swallow at: wswallow54(at) or call at 775-473-5559.